I’ve been called many names like perfectionist, difficult and obsessive. I think it takes obsession, takes searching for the details for any artist to be good. For some sex is an obsession, the artist’ is obsessed with his subject, to give you the best. A obsession which can make one withstand negative forces, an obsession which can make one more beautiful from outside and inside, an obsession which can make one understand anothers pain, an obsession which can make one lead a live with purity in the material world and the spiritual world is nothing but a healthy obsession as this is called obsessed towards being a better human being.
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Obsession is an attractive thing. People who are really, really interested and good at one thing and smart are attractive, and obsessed with what became their success. If you are not obsessed in a healthy way, then we can never give our best into anything we do. The one driving factor or the motivating factor towards reaching your goal is obsession.

I am obsessed with myself, i am obsessed with my work, i am obsessed with the Divine Power, I am obsessed with Life and Philosophy, I am obsessed with what became my success. Healthy obsession is also passion. Any obsession which can make us compassion, selfless, giving, values, motivation , love, understanding, care is called healthy obsession.
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Most ask me strange questions ” why do i love to change my profile pictures? ” Another ” How can a woman who is so obsessed with herself be spiritual ? ” Spiritual means no love for yourself “..and some ” You have done a good job of marketing yourself ? ..

When such questions are asked it means the answer in their mind is ” she loves herself, she is obsessed with herself ..right? Yes, you are right. I am obsessed in myself, and in all i do. And the things i am obsessed is always been my obsession. My strong motivating and inspiration towards my work is my obsession. If someone took a lifetime to achieve success in a materialism world I would have achieved it in barely 2 years.

My obsession or love for myself has preserved me externally, if not i would be looking 60+ now as the stress of life, the ups and downs, the mud slinging by public, the bitching, the assumptions, the false accusations, pain, sorrows would make one end up being a mental wreck. Hagard with dark circles and suicidal tendencies. And drugs, alcohol and sex would have been my escape from the pain.

A obsession which can make one withstand negative forces, an obsession which can make one more beautiful from outside, an obsession which can make one understand anothers pain, an obsession which can make one lead a live with purity in the material world and the spiritual world is nothing but a healthy obsession as this is called obsessed towards being a better human being.

We always use a word without understanding the deeper level of the word. We are always used to looking at the surface rather we must use our strenght in going deeper and analysing if a word like ” obsession” or ” I ” is used in a positive or negative manner. The spiritual world says that “we” is better than ” I”..Love is better than Obsession. Right ? I agree. But what it means is ‘I” should not make us self centered, selfish, biased, jealous, vindictive. As thats negative. If obsession can ruin yourself and the others around you, than its again negative and harmful.
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My obsession with time informs my poetry towards life, beauty and work, so completely it is hard for me to summarize it. We want time to pass, for new things to happen to us, we want to hold on to certain moments, we don’t want our lives to end. Obsession is a young man’s game, and my only excuse is that I never grew old. People can get obsessed with romance, they can get obsessed with political paranoia, they can get obsessed with horror. It’s isn’t the fault of the subject matter that creates the obsession, I don’t think.

Obsession does not necessarily mean sexual obsession, not even obsession for this, or for that in particular; to be an obsessional means to find oneself caught in a mechanism, in a trap increasingly demanding and endless. Obsession led me to write. It’s been that way with every blog I’ve ever written. I become completely consumed by a theme, by characters, by a desire to meet a challenge.

My current obsession with creativity is the result of continued striving for immortality in an era when most people no longer believe in an after-life. The immortality of the soul is a matter which is of so great consequence to us and which touches us so profoundly that we must have lost all feeling to be indifferent about it. Our soul is cast into a body, where it finds number, time, dimension. Thereupon it reasons, and calls this nature necessity, and can believe nothing else. Probably I chose immortality because mortality is a universal human obsession. Love is an obsession. It has that quality to it. But there are healthy obsessions, and mine is one of them. This a consistent soul understands the obsession, believes in destiny, a capricious one in chance.

What moves those of genius, what inspires their work is not new ideas, but their obsession with the idea that what has already been said is still not enough. Without obsession, life is nothing. Your ability to use the principle of autosuggestion will depend, very largely, upon your capacity to concentrate upon a given desire until that desire becomes a burning obsession.Without obsession I would not be amongst you in this platform in a span of 5 months as i started my page spiritualism in the month of feb 2009 and my first introduction to facebook. As I was never a internet person due to extensive travel and my obsession towards my being a Entrepreneur. I achieved my goal in 2 years. And needed something more to the obsession as the energy was high and i was galloping. This again due to obsession.
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Movies, Modelling was never a obsession. Therefore I was never driven towards it with a one track mind. Anything which is a obsession has made my success more like a dream come true. The passion which again is also called obsession has made me achieve my goal in a short time where people take a lifetime and yet not satisfied.

Yes and our obsession with youth in our culture and how we, women lie about their age after 35 obsessively and no one wants to let anyone know they’re getting older. Why are we, so obsessed with foreign things? Is it a legacy of our colonial years? We want foreign television sets. We want foreign shirts. We want foreign technology. Why this obsession with everything imported?

The work is a calling. It demands that type of obsession. The obsession required to see a feature through from concept to release is not a rational thing to do with your brief time on this planet. Nor is it something to which an intelligent person should aspire. The happiness of one’s own heart alone cannot satisfy the soul; one must try to include, as necessary to one’s own happiness, the happiness of others. creative habit is like a drug. The particular obsession changes, but the excitement, the thrill of your creation lasts.

The more decadent a culture gets, the more they have a need for what they don’t have at all, which is innocence, so you end up with kiddie porn and a perverse obsession with youth. I feel in the depths of my soul that this is the highest of all obsession, most sacred, and most irreversible part of my obligation to preserve , although it may cost me my life.

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Sankalps Journey

For the most part, people want the same thing from a romantic partner. People want spouses and partners who are:
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Understanding
Appreciative
Respectful
Caring and kind
Helpful
Trustworthy
Positive
Fun to be around

Relationships are difficult to maintain when they are filled with conflict, negativity and a lack of trust.
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So, what does it take to maintain a healthy relationship?
People in long-term, satisfying relationships tend to do the following (this advice is adapted from Montgomery, Cole and Bradac, and Canary and Stafford’s work on Relational Maintenance):

Slow, but Consistent – Relationships work the best when people go slow and take their time getting to know each other. Whirlwind romances usually end in disaster. It also helps to be consistently supportive and encouraging. Inconsistent behavior causes misunderstandings and uncertainty.

Keep Things Upbeat – Relationships work the best when partners express a positive and upbeat attitude towards each other. Genuine displays of happiness and affection go a long way when trying to make a relationship work. By contrast, relationships fail when indifference, anger and negativity become the norm. In fact, even a little negativity can create a lot of problems in a close relationship. This does not mean that people cannot express negative feelings in a relationship, but that there are appropriate (and inappropriate) ways of dealing with one’s negative feelings

Approach Problems Together – Couples feel closer and are more satisfied with their relationships when they approach problems and difficulties as a team. Couples who take an US versus the PROBLEM, rather than a YOU versus ME approach to conflict are much happier in the long run.
Don’t Take Each Other For Granted – Over time, couples typically take each other for granted. At the start of a relationship people appreciate all the things that their partners do for them. However, as time goes on, people tend to expect more, but acknowledge a partner’s contributions less often. To keep a relationship happy and healthy it is important to show appreciation on a consistent basis.

Appreciate Differences – Relationships work the best when partners have a lot in common, but respect and appreciate the differences that do exist. It helps to appreciate someone for who they are rather than try to change them or how they behave

Be Approachable – People need to be able to talk freely with a romantic partner. Sharing what is going on in one’s life and how one feels about issues is important to do. But, being open with a partner is not always easy because it requires spouses to tell the truth and to LISTEN to things that may be difficult to hear. Listening in an attempt to UNDERSTAND, not control, evaluate, or judge is critical to having an satisfying relationship.

Express Commitment – Relationships work the best when partners reassure each other of their love and commitment. It never hurts to tell a spouse that you love him or her and that you will always be there.

Know me and here I answer to all querys..

A true Confession.. No editting here.. As it is…

Knowledge of any kind, be it a experience of one self or another , a message of God in the form of scripture .. is to be distributed free of cost. Paying a penny for knowledge is a greater sin than the seller as by buying we are encouraging them. If anyone wishes to write of his or anyones experience, Our pain and sorrow, our journey is not for sale. If anyone does that then its never reality. Our life experiences can be shared if that can benifit our fellow beings, but if our journey is our bread and butter than that journey can never be a journey of pain and grief.
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Our pain and grief is our deep emotions which is the truth of our lives. These incidents are our learning towards being better human beings, but if our life incidents is for sale, than its never been our deep emotion. At times our experience can be picked from any book which can connect to us. But again anything taken with genuine feelings and emotions, can give life and soul to a dead text too.. As our feelings, grief, sorrow felt from within reflects in the writing.. and these emotions are our closest truth. How can one think of selling it ?

In my view, or according to me, this is what is Gods will, that pain and sorrow is a part of our knowledge given to us free of cost by nature, we are each given a book by nature which is our book of journey in this lifetime. This is for us to learn and understand the good or the bad that suits us. We adapt our lifestyle based on this book. This book is rich of knowledge, wisdom and insight .. which can be positive or negative. Again we are solely responsible for our acts.. Be it positive or negative..as that is not imposed by God.

God has given us the free will towards our thoughts..our thoughts are purely ours and God is not responsible for those thoughts. THIS IS US..DIVINE OR EVIL..

Our thoughts lead us towards our path to enlightenment.. that is the light which we see.. thats the Divine path. The basic understanding or the foundation to begin this journey is our inner self. Our inner self is the beginning of all our destiny. That can lead us to Divine Success or the road towards the dark tunnel where one can never see light. Again our step towards our inner self is First Love yourself as if you Love yourself, then you can love the others, and you see everything around you beautiful and our happiness is purely based on our mindset. Vindictive, jealousy, malicious, is the downfall of the envious the victory of the envied ..Whenever you are spoken the most or investigated the most REMEMBER YOU ARE IMPORTANT.. IF YOU WERE NOT IMPORTANT THEN NONE WOULD WASTE THEIR PRECIOUS TIME ON YOU.

Jealousy and anger is nothing but the frustration of ones own self. When one is angry within themselves, the outcome is anger with the world. What is the reality of this emotion. Check my note on ” Behavioural Pattern of Human Frustration”..fawzia new files 199

Each one of us are solely responsible for our success and failure in life. Success and failure is nothing but the mirror of our truth.

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